Its 2018 – and I’m setting out on a new path to discover more of my Female Potential. To do this I need to finally bring my whole self to the table – including both my “corporate” self and my “alternative” self – I hope you will enjoy accompanying me on this new phase of my journey.
2007 to 2017
It’s now over 11 years since I started work as a Coach having previous trained with CTI; gaining accreditation as an ICF Professional Certified Coach back in 2012. Being a coach is less about what you do for a living and more about setting out on a life-long journey of self-discovery – simply you can’t take a client where you haven’t ventured yourself.
During these years my personal discovery journey took me to train as an Organisational and Relationship Systems Coach, NLP Practioner, Enneagram Practioner and an Organisational Systemic Constellator as well as becoming an ongoing student in a Psycho-Spiritual school called the Diamond Approach. (Follow the hyperlinks to see where and with whom I studied) In addition I am currently working to complete 3 years of study to become a Voice Dialogue Facilitator. All of these disciplines are woven together to make up my current coaching model.
For 8 of these years, the Women’s Development Forum “WDF” (a not-for-profit I founded, dedicated to supporting women in the corporate world), took up every spare moment of my time. Over the years of operation in Guernsey and Jersey we ran over 120 WDF meetings, with 7000+ attendees. Our style was “friendly, fun and inclusive”, where women networked together as equals while raising awareness of topics pertinent to women in the workplace. During this time, while maybe slightly unconventional, my public face was still very corporate.
But behind the public face, in addition to the above trainings many of which a bit out there for some people, I’ve also explored as a client – Reiki, Yoga, Chanting, Crystals, Bio-Dynamic Cranial Sacral, Tarot Cards, Qi Massage, Flotation Tanks, Shen Therapy, Reflexology amongst others – as you may have gathered I enjoy taking an open minded approach to life.
Outside of work I am trying to become a sailor, but it has to be said so far I’m the fair-weather and comfy marina kind. Plus I’ve recently discovered the absolute pleasure of year round sea swimming – if that sounds like an oxymoron maybe you should give it a try!
Before I became a coach I spent over 20 years working in the Guernsey finance industry, during which I qualified as a Chartered Secretary and gained an MA with distinction in Strategic HR Management, but never actually worked directly in either of those areas! For 10 of the 20 years I was Director of Operations for an offshore fund administration company and the only female on a board.
I can admit now that I was never very interested in the finance part of my job, it was leading the people that really floated my boat. However at the time, I wasn’t conscious of the now well-known arguments for gender balance, having totally bought into the patriarchal view of how the system operated. It was only after I examined my reasons for self-selecting out of the system that I became aware of the many gender issues hidden in plain sight, which was the catalyst to form the Women’s Development Forum in an attempt to help a younger version of myself.